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Those terms are a little different that bisexual, which refers to people who are attracted to both men and women. Just because he was born with the wrong parts doesn't mean that he is less a man than a man born with all the male parts. But you might also want to think about why having a lesbian identity seems so uncomfortable you.

A reader named Harley explains it like this: "I am a 23 yr old FTM, I have a straight girlfriend and I must say you really should not feel like this challenges your sexuality at all. Just like some are born with missing body parts such as an arm, or some are born with an extra thumb, FTM's are just born with the mind of a man and our body doesn't match up with our mind. Doing so might challenge some of the ideas that you have about what it means to be a lesbian.

But some don't continue to be attracted to women after transition. Sandra Samons postulates that these transitioners are surprised to find that they like the way men react to them as women, enough to seek a romantic relationship with one. And while gays and lesbians have generally welcomed me, they usually don't get why more of my trans friends are not involved.

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In my case, I was living as a male since birth and was attracted to females, making me considered to be straight.

After I concluded my true gender was female, some were truly speechless once it clicked for them that my continued attraction to women meant I was now considered a lesbian. All you have to remember is that sexual orientation is completely different from gender identity. As a lesbian, I'm comfortable being involved with LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender) organizations.

Society is very slowly moving toward the same conclusion, too.

But fear of being mislabeled as gay is not going away fast enough to allow many of my straight trans women friends to experience the love and validation that comes from being in an enduring, committed relationship.

Now, living as a man who is in a relationship with a woman, Chaz is considered by society to be straight.

Many people don't think this through when a friend or loved one undergoes a transsexual transition.

Dates with other straight men abruptly end when your history comes out, again because of your date's fear of appearing gay.

Don't get me wrong - as a gay woman, I don't think there is anything wrong with being gay.

I still am in love with him, but I feel like if I keep dating him then I'm a lesbian. But aren’t the terms just different words for the same thing? Sex refers to a person's biological maleness or femaleness.

Females typically have XX chromosomes and males typically have XY chromosomes.

This should not be breaking news, and yet it will be for many. Back in the 1990's, lesbian and gay organizations started adding transgender people to their missions.

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